人要活好四个度:长度、厚度、宽度和深度

Feels inspired by this philosophical article that I stumbled upon on life and living in the four dimensions. 😀

人活着要有长度、厚度、宽度和深度。长度是人的寿命,谁也无法决定长短;厚度是人的为人,要敦厚老实;宽度是人的肚量,要有广阔的胸怀;深度是人的能量,社会活动能量、精神的能量。

对一个生活在阴霾下仍心存阳光的人而言,所有的悲伤痛苦都会为他让路。活着,人生的长度无人能够决定,但生命的厚度应如桥墩,是生活的基础;生命的宽度应如路面,展现我们的价值;生命的深度应如桥下的汹涌洪流,积蓄我们的能量。只要有那么一根叫乐观信念支柱,即便面对再大的险涛恶浪,只要我们的脊梁不弯曲,始终挺拔着,高过无常风云,总会在凶险命运的暗涛中矗成一种海拔。

长度代表寿命,生理的长短;厚度代表一个人的社会能量;宽度代表一个人的心胸;高度代表一个人的境界

一个人的长度不同,一个人对社会的贡献和价值也不同;一个人的宽度不同,一个人的胸襟胸怀也不同;一个人的厚度不同,一个人的成就大小也不同;一个人的高度不同,看事情的角度,深度也不同。

凡事不必太在意,就让一切随缘去:逃避不一定躲得过,面对不一定最难过孤独不一定不快乐;得到不一定长久,失去不一定不再拥有。爱是一种享受,即使痛苦也会觉得幸福;爱是一种体会,即使心碎也会觉得甜蜜;爱是一种经历,即使破碎也会觉得美丽;不要因为寂寞而错爱,不要因为错爱而寂寞一生。

人生的路上,我们都在奔跑,我们总在赶超一些人,也总在被一些人超越。人生的要义,一是欣赏沿途的风景,二是抵达遥远的终点;人生的秘诀,寻找一种最适合自己的速度,莫因疾进而不堪重荷,莫因迟缓而空耗生命;人生的快乐,走自己的路,看自己的景,超越他人不得意,他人超越不失志。

人品以正直为贵,心地以善良为贵。情感以真挚为贵,性格坚韧为贵。待人以诚恳为贵,处世以谦让为贵。学问以通达为贵,技艺以专精为贵。言语以简明为贵,行动以稳健为贵。衣饰以得体为贵,饮食以素淡为贵。养身以寡言为贵,治家以勤俭为贵。做人信仰为贵,做事以尽心为贵。

增加对身体的投资,让身体始终好用;增加对社交的投资,扩大你的人脉;增加对学习的投资,加强你的自信;增加对旅游的投资,扩大你的见闻;增加对未来的投资,增加你的收益。好好规划落实,你会发现你的人生逐步会有大量盈余。

和恋人讲道理,是不想谈了;和老婆讲道理,是不想过了;和同事讲道理,是不想混了;和上级讲道理,是不想干了;和老板讲道理,是不想升了;和邻居讲道理,是不想见了;和朋友讲道理,是不想交了;和老师讲道理,是不想学了;和社会讲道理,是不想呆了;和权力讲道理,是不想活了。

Reference: http://www.5719.cn/html/chengzhang/renshengzheli/201109/renyaohuohaosigedu_changdu_houdu_kuanduheshendu_3790.html

First Dinner for Year 2013

The celebration of the new year was held at home.

It’s Korean style but not Gang.nam style.

Mummy did all the preparation.

Sis did the cooking with Mummy’s help.

Me and Dad did the eating.  LOL!

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We had samgyeopsal with lettuce and beer.

Mashi soyo!

Happy 2013! 

Life Can Be Beautiful If You Let It

 

周杰伦 – 稻香

词/曲:周杰伦
对这个世界如果你有太多的抱怨
跌倒了 就不敢继续往前走
为什麼 人要这麼的脆弱 堕落
请你打开电视看看 多少人
为生命在努力勇敢的走下去
我们是不是该知足
珍惜一切 就算没有拥有

还记得你说家是唯一的城堡
随著稻香河流继续奔跑
微微笑 小时候的梦我知道
不要哭让萤火虫带著你逃跑
乡间的歌谣永远的依靠
童年的纸飞机 现在终於飞回我手里

所谓的那快乐 赤脚在田里追蜻蜓追到累了
偷摘水果被蜜蜂给叮到怕了
谁在偷笑呢
我靠著稻草人吹著风唱著歌睡著了
哦 哦 午后吉它在虫鸣中更清脆
哦 哦 阳光洒在路上就不怕心碎
珍惜一切 就算没有拥有

还记得你说家是唯一的城堡
随著稻香河流继续奔跑
微微笑 小时候的梦我知道
不要哭让萤火虫带著你逃跑
乡间的歌谣永远的依靠
回家吧 回到最初的美好

不要这麼容易就想放弃 就像我说的
追不到的梦想 换个梦不就得了
为自己的人生鲜艳上色
先把爱涂上喜欢的颜色

笑一个吧 功成名就不是目的
让自己快乐快乐这才叫做意义
童年的纸飞机 现在终於飞回我手里

所谓的那快乐 赤脚在田里追蜻蜓追到累了
偷摘水果被蜜蜂给叮到怕了
谁在偷笑呢
我靠著稻草人吹著风唱著歌睡著了
哦 哦 午后吉它在虫鸣中更清脆
哦 哦 阳光洒在路上就不怕心碎
珍惜一切 就算没有拥有

还记得你说家是唯一的城堡
随著稻香河流继续奔跑
微微笑 小时候的梦我知道
不要哭让萤火虫带著你逃跑
乡间的歌谣永远的依靠
回家吧 回到最初的美好

还记得你说家是唯一的城堡
随著稻香河流继续奔跑
微微笑 小时候的梦我知道
不要哭让萤火虫带著你逃跑
乡间的歌谣永远的依靠
回家吧 回到最初的美好

还记得你说家是唯一的城堡
随著稻香河流继续奔跑
微微笑 小时候的梦我知道
不要哭让萤火虫带著你逃跑
乡间的歌谣永远的依靠
回家吧 回到最初的美好

还记得你说家是唯一的城堡
随著稻香河流继续奔跑
微微笑 小时候的梦我知道
不要哭让萤火虫带著你逃跑
乡间的歌谣永远的依靠
回家吧 回到最初的美好

So meaningful and inspirational.

Life can be beautiful if you let it.

It’s your choice.

Really.

In Time

It’s an action packed affair for me the past two weeks as I have been tuning in to the Fox.Movies.Premium.HD.Channel. I can feel the  adrenaline rush as some of the action packed films satisfy my ravenous appetite for action.  I thought I should do a post on In Time which is a dystopian science fiction action film starring Justin Timber.lake, Amanda Sey.fried and Cillian Mur.phy as I find the plot rather unique and intriguing.

Title: In Time 

Year of release: 2011

Directed by: Andrew Niccol

Plot Summary: 

The movie chronicles a future where human beings are bio-engineered to live until age 25, and after they cross that marker their time to live is treated as currency, banked by a neon clock tattooed on their forearms. Like currency in the real world, time is earned through working, stealing, or in the case of the wealthy, inheritance. Also like currency in the real world, time is spent on commodities, leisure, or in rare cases of benevolence, donation. The varying amounts of time people possess creates a social hierarchy that mirrors our own: “Time Zones” confine the poor to a ghetto existence where “clock-punched” citizens lie dead in the streets.

Will Salas (Timber.lake) also runs into Sylvia Weis (Amanda Sey.fried), daughter of wealthy time mogul Phillippe Weis (Vincent Kar.theiser). Sylvia has all the time a person could want, but has not experienced a single day worth living – so naturally she is quickly smitten with Will’s “every second counts” passion for life.

However, the time system that keeps the world going is one that does not favor anomalies. When Will suddenly changes fortunes, it attracts the attention of the “Time Keepers” (cops). When the Keepers come to forcibly take away Will’s time, Will is forced to flee with Sylvia as a hostage and the chase ensues.

The idea of time as currency has huge metaphorical and thematic potential, and in the first act it seems as though the film will utilise this potential by exploring issues like what it is to “live” vs. “exist” and how the investment of time as a life or death matter realigns one’s perceptions of what’s worthwhile, and how to live life.

Reference: http://screenrant.com/in-time-reviews-2011-kofi-138138/

Time is power. Time is money. But time isn’t everything.

Are you living or simply existing?

7 Days 6 Nights in Western Taiwan

Knowing that I buried myself in work, my mum and sis kindly planned for the upcoming family trip since June. Thanks and sorry for being very uninvolved. It has been quite a while since I last traveled with my immediate family and extended family (aunt, uncle & cousins). I am thankful for being able to share the time off with my family. It’s time for interaction, bonding and re-connection!

This time round my family will be embarking on a Western Taiwan tour with .Dynasty.Travel. Previously, I went on two separate tours to Korea and Japan with .Dynasty.Travel and I am pretty impressed with their service. I am actually looking forward to travelling with them again.

Tour Itinerary

Taichung – Kaohsiung – Tainan – Jiayi – Yunlin – Nantou – Taichung

DAY 1 : SINGAPORE-TAIPEI
Assemble at Singapore Changi Airport
o Arrival meet our local representative and transfer to Taipei City
o Visit Taipei 101 Shopping Mall

o Shihlin Night Market

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DAY 2 :TAIPEI – KAOHSIUNG
o Travel to Kaohsiung by high speed rail (2hrs)
o Visit Mei Nong Hakka Village (Experience Lei Cha DIY)


o Proceed to Fo Guan Shan (Taiwan’s Largest Buddhist Temple)
o Next Visit the British Consultate at Takao. (Traditional Old Street With Handicraft shops)
o Visit Pearl Centre
o Evening visit Leoho Night Market (Kaoshiung Famous night Market)


o Overnight at kaoshiung city.

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DAY 3 : KAOHSIUNG – TAINAN – JIAYI
o Travel To Tainan (1.5hrs)
o Visit Nan Ying Tsung- Yeh Arts and Cultural Center (Scenic arts and cultural heritage park with historic buildings)
o Next visit An-Ping Old Street.
(Taiwan’s oldest city streets)


o Continue to Beimen Town
o Visit Qian Lai Ye Grocery Store. (Traditional grocery store, filming site of Taiwanese idol drama)

I watched this Taiwanese drama years ago!
o Visit Beimen Service Centre
o Jing Zai Jiao Salt Field (Experience Salt Harvesting)
o Nan Kun Shen Dai Tian Fu. (One of southern Taiwan’s Oldest Religious Center)
o Proceed to Childhood Resort
o Resort Activities – grass sliding, toy museum, firefly eco park.

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DAY 4 : JIAYI – YUNLIN
o Morning Visit Sin Gang Incense Artistic Culture Garden (First Incense culture industry house in Taiwan)
o Continue to Janfusan Fancy World Theme park (One of Taiwan’s popular theme park)
o Overnight at Janfusan Prince Hotel (Theme Park Hotel)
o After Dinner you may visit the Night Theme Park.

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DAY 5 : YUNLIN – NANTOU – TAICHUNG
o Travel to Nantou. (3 hours)
o Proceed to visit Sun Moon Lake. (Taiwan’s popular and biggest lake)


o Visit Wen Wu Temple, Peacock Garden
o Visit Aboriginal Product Centre
o Proceed to Taichung City
o Visit Fengjia Night Market (One of the popular and the biggest night market in Taiwan)

http://www.dynastytravel.com/global_files/images/ecommerce/dt_icon_meal.pngBreakfast / Lunch – Aboriginal Style Cuisine

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DAY 6 : TAICHUNG – TAIPEI
o Morning travel to Taipei city (3hrs)
o Visit Martyr’s shrine, Tienlu Handicraft center
o Visit Shihlin Presidential Residence, Aboriginal Local Product Center.
o Proceed to Jiufen (1hr)
o Visit Jiufen Old Street. (Traditional old street, with popular local delicacies and handicraft shops)


o Xi Men Ding (Shopping District)

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DAY 7 : TAIPEI – SINGAPORE
o Free and easy

o Transfer to airport for your flight back to Singapore.

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7 days and counting 

Happy Birthday To Me!

I’m really thankful for all the  birthday surprises and well wishes that were showered upon me this year. Some may know that the degree of positivity in me has been at its lowest point for the past few weeks. All these well wishes came just in time to revive the living dead cells in me. Thank you so much and I truly had a lot of fun this year.

I love my family….thanks for letting me know that you will always be there no matter what happens.

I love my friends…thanks for listening and sharing my woes. Thanks for making me feel that I’m special.

I love my students…thank you 11Y1C for being appreciative!

Thanks for the cards, cake and well wishes on Facebook!

Teachers need encouragements and reassurance from their students too. This motivates us to want to do more for you.

I just want to say that there is no one best time to show that you love or care for someone. Any moment can be the perfect moment if you seize that moment to do something for the one you love and care for. Showing of love, care and concern need not be something big like throwing a party or announcing to the whole world that you love or care for that someone. Small gestures like giving a pat on the shoulder, saying thank you or even writing encouragement notes will keep the love alive.

Thanks for keeping me alive!

Thanks!

Thank you for remembering who I am.

Thank you for reminding me who I am.

Thank you for giving me a chance to be who I am.

Thank you for being the ray of sunshine for me like you always do.

I will walk bravely on the pathway that you have lighted on for me.

Thank you for believing in me.

Her second home

The best thing that had happened this week! 🙂

Miss Low jia you!!!!

“Each time we face our fear, we gain strength, courage

and confidence in the doing.”

Mrs Lee Kuan Yew dies aged 89

By yahoosingapore – October 2nd, 2010

http://sg.yfittopostblog.com/2010/10/02/mrs-lee-kuan-yew-dies-aged-89/

Madam Kwa Geok Choo – wife of Singapore’s founding father Lee Kuan Yew and mother of PM Lee Hsien Loong – has died on Saturday at the age of 89.Kwa “passed away peacefully at home,” the Prime Minister’s Office said in a statement. It did not specify the cause of death.The Straits Times reports that she died with daughter, Lee Wei Ling, by her side at her Oxley Road home.Earlier in the day, her younger son, Lee Hsien Yang had come to visit. Her husband, Minister Mentor Lee Kuan Yew, was hospitalised earlier this week for a chest infection.PM Lee, who was on an official four-day visit to Belgium, immediately cut short his trip and flew back home with his wife, Ho Ching.Last month, MM Lee revealed that his companion of 63 years — they have been together since they were law students in London – had been bedridden for the last two years since she suffered a major brain haemorrhage in June 2008.He had shared that his most difficult moment is at the end of each day as he sits by the bedside of his wife, who had been unable to speak or move.“She understands when I talk to her, which I do every night,” he said. “She keeps awake for me; I tell her about my day’s work, read her favourite poems.”“I told her, ‘I would try and keep you company for as long as I can,” before adding, “I’m not sure who’s going first, whether she or me.”

Singapore’s Minister Mentor Lee Kuan Yew and his wife Kwa Geok Choo attend a May Day rally in Singapore May 1, 2006.President SR Nathan and his wife issued a five-paragraph statement which paid tribute to Mrs Lee’s “greatness” as someone who had loyally stood by her husband, Lee Kuan Yew, through thick and thin.The statement praised her for being a ”legal luminary, as a mother of an illustrious family, and more than that for her stoic presence next to Mr Lee Kuan Yew during times of turbulence and tension in the many years of his political struggle.”The statement also said she was MM Lee’s constant “companion, confidante and counsel, and we may never fully appreciate the impact and influence she had in shaping Minister Mentor’s thinking and life.”

MM Lee and his wife Kwa Geok Choo celebrate his 80th birthday in Singapore on September 16, 2003. (Reuters)Reaction from Singaporeans was also swift as news of her death quickly spread on micro-blogging site Twitter.Some expressed shock such as @hellocharleto, who tweeted, “Omg. Lee Kuan Yew’s wife Kwa Geok Choo passed away. RIP”.

Others conveyed messages of condolences such as @herbertism who tweeted, “Rest in Peace mother of Singapore, Madam Kwa Geok Choo.”Yahoo Fit-to-Post readers were quick to write messages of condolences, leaving behind over 300 comments in the first few hours of her death.Among the best-rated comments was one by Chua Kai Shing, who wrote, “Mrs Lee Kuan Yew, behind every success comes an inspirational story. I’m sure we all know you as the great woman behind our beloved senior minister, you are that special someone he chose, and together you are the parents of modern Singapore. Rest in peace.”Another by Vodka wished that MM Lee would remain strong even after his long-time companion had passed.“Behind every successful man is a great woman and she had been the pillar of strength for her husband… May her soul now rest in peace. I hope that MM Lee will be strong and keep his motivation for life even though his partner has passed away,” he said.Madam Kwa was one of 8 children.A brilliant student at Methodist Girls’ School, she topped the 1936 Senior Cambridge Examination for the whole of Malaya and Singapore.At Raffles Institution, she caught the attention of a young Lee Kuan Yew when she gave him unexpectedly stiff competition for a Queen’s Scholarship.Their relationship grew through the Japanese Occupation and by 1944, love had truly blossomed and set in between the two.Mr Lee left to study law in England in 1946 after World War II and his then sweetheart joined him at Cambridge University a year later.The two married secretly on 23 December 1947 after she had just turned 27, and he was 24.Mrs Lee said once: “You can’t explain these things … He had tremendous aplomb, self-confidence, very jaunty, he was a handsome young man.”When they returned to Singapore in 1950, they tied the knot again, this time with their parents’ full knowledge.When Mr Lee got more involved in politics and became Singapore’s Prime Minister in 1959, Mrs Lee, her husband and her brother-in-law, Dennis Lee Kim Yew, founded the Lee & Lee law firm in 1955.She is survived by her husband, two sons and a daughter.Her eldest son is Lee Hsien Loong, Singapore’s current Prime Minister while her second son is Lee Hsien Yang, chairman of Fraser & Neave and Civil Aviation Authority of Singapore or CAAS.Her daughter is Lee Wei Ling, head of Singapore’s National Neuroscience Institute.

Matriarch of the Lee family, Kwa Geok Choo (centre) with her husband, Lee Kuan Yew (left) and son, PM Lee Hsien Loong. (AFP file photo)Although she shied away from a high profile, Mrs Lee’s contributions to Singapore had been most significant, and pivotal to its history.“I wanted someone my equal, not someone who needed looking after,” the elder Lee later explained in his autobiography.“She was a great source of strength and comfort,” Lee wrote, adding that his wife corrected the drafts of his dictated speeches.“I made a point, however, not to discuss the formulation of policies with her, and she was scrupulous in not reading notes or faxes that were sensitive,” he wrote.A statement from the Prime Minister’s Office said her wake will be held at Sri Temasek – official residence of the Prime Minister located within the Istana grounds — on Monday and Tuesday from 10am to 5pm.A private funeral will take place on October 6 at Mandai Crematorium.

The family requests that no obituaries and no wreaths or flowers to be sent.

All donations will go to the National Neuroscience Institute (NNI) Health Research Endowment Fund.Members of the public may call 6835 6614 for any queries.

I sincerely wish that her loved ones would remain strong and hope that they would smile to the fond memories that she had left behind.

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